schmetterling34's Notizen, 31 Jul 13

COURGETTES


Grilled, fried, pickled, made into chutney, muffins, breads, soups, stuffed.....the list is endless & I still got lots left as they grow on a daily basis :) oh forgot: I grated a few kilos & froze them too.

Now the garden is in full swing I am even busier than usual. If not in the garden, I am in the kitchen trying to cope with all the produce. The runner beans are competing with the dwarf grean beans, the shallots need hangibg up to dry, still waiting for my tomatoes to turn red, spinach, cucumber galore, little cute butternut squash, & really tasty crunchy carrots :)

Its a good thing that I only train 3 times a week now. With looking after the pheasants as well....it all gets a bit much sometimes. But I won't complain. I love this time of a year!!!! Picking my own fruit & veg is my favourite past time :).

The one thing that is really upsetting me: My mum being so miserable!
I can't get my head around it. Its always worst case senario with her. I know she is ill, she hasn't had a firm diagnose yet but instead of dealing with the symptoms she seems to go out of her way to aggrevate them. *sigh* Now she wants to sell the family home & put herself in an old peoples home. She is 74! My sister & I have told her years ago to sell the damm thing & find a little manageble place. I think half the problem is that she has been on her own for so long. My dad died nearly 30 years agao, making her a widow at mere 45 years old. For some reason she never found someone else :(
Her crying everytime I call is so sad. & I don't know what to do to help her.

Looking forward to my kettlebell session tonight. I really have grown to love these. Strength training & cardio in the same set: it doesn't get much better!!!


Kommentare 
I am waiting on my toms too. Having a freezing session at the weekend for my greens. I picked up a butternut squash by mistake from our nursery, it's growing like mad now and has its own grow tent but every time it's flowers and bears a fruit they die back after a few days.... I just want one to grow at least...it's not too much to ask... :( 
31 Jul 13 vom Mitglied: jonnybadback
Your garden sounds delightful. Wishing I had a green thumb. It's one of those things in my mind that I wish I could do, have tried, but it needs much love and my life is just so busy with work kids and all. Must be a little stressful about your mom. Mine is getting up in her age and with her she is a tough cookie. She is independent but dependent. She doesnt want help but she does. It's quite difficult to know her needs but we're managing. I would imagine that maybe your mom is confused and doesnt want to make decisions? Who knows, when people are sad and sick they get confused too. Maybe she is lonely without your dad and you and it can be a terrible feeling alone and your body breaking down. Depression is real and attacks our inner core. Trust me, I've been living it. I also had an uncle take his life from it after he lost his wife. He tried for years to cope, got remarried, she took him for everything, he started gambling and by the time family noticed his odd behavior it was too late. Sometimes we all get so caught up in our daily lives we forget about those we love. Your dad died when you were very young and I'm sorry for that. To be honest, I find consolation in survivors like yourself who made it! I have to be thankful that mine lived to 78. That was many years to influence me. So, believe me, you are an inspiration to others. Just hang in there with your mom. If its an option, let her stay with you a few days so you can really see whats going on in her mind. Have a blessed day!  
01 Aug 13 vom Mitglied: sailorgrl
Glen - Kudos to you dealing with your mom. It sounds tough and a little scary at the same time. Knowing that we all are destined for the golden years too. We love our parents so much and hate to see them in that state. Your post certainly gives me reason to cherish the little moments with my mom while she is still around and of sound mind. Thank You. 
01 Aug 13 vom Mitglied: sailorgrl

     
 

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