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I have attempted to write this post 3xs but cant quite express what Im feeling so Ill leave it with the fact that I know how blessed my life is but I still feel overwhelmed by the issues others have and its really affecting me...its depressing...
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Fett: 50,95g | Eiw: 82,09g | Kohlh: 104,32g.
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Praying your situation and heart lightens Diana. ❤️🙏
21 Jun 22 vom Mitglied: wifey9707
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Sending you a big hug :-)
21 Jun 22 vom Mitglied: LivinBreezy
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21 Jun 22 vom Mitglied: CrystalJo74
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21 Jun 22 vom Mitglied: JustBananas
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Wifey, just bananas, livinbreezy, Crystal jo, and Erq, Thank you guys for your support! I spent time with my husband/ best friend and was able to talk to my big sister today about what was overwhelming me, as well as reading your sweet comments, and I feel better. I realized that sometimes other people's issues are not mine to fix.
I have a good life, a husband I love and who treats me with respect, I have a son who is growing emotionally into the man I always knew he could be, grandchildren who I love more than anything, and I'm extremely blessed to be at a point in my life where I can live and play comfortably. I just need to learn that not all my family's problems are mine to fix and if I keep fixing them, they will always expect that and never learn to be strong on their own. Thank you all for listening.💜💜
21 Jun 22 vom Mitglied: Diana 1234
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Erq, I tried journaling a few times but never kept up with it. I do meditate and pray and that is helpful. I don't usually get this overwhelmed but there has been so much going on in my husband's family that everyone is fighting with each other and it just got to be to much. Everyone turns to me to fix things and at some point I need to walk away. It's too draining. They are even calling me on vacation. Anyway, thank you for your suggestions! 💜💜💜💜💜💜
21 Jun 22 vom Mitglied: Diana 1234
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I used to be the way you described - when my mom or sister would tell me about their issues I would get headaches. I couldn't fix anything and I didn't really agree with lots of the problems and it was just easier if they didn't talk to me. I stopped getting headaches after I stopped talking to my mom about things that upset her.
21 Jun 22 vom Mitglied: Fritzy 22
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Sometimes all that we can do is let go of dysfunctional people and suggest that they seek outside counseling. It's ok to set boundaries and not allow people to drag you into their stuff.
21 Jun 22 vom Mitglied: saigegirl
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Fritzy, I feel guilty when I don't help but it's becoming a problem and I need to do exactly what you said. Thx for the advice 💜
21 Jun 22 vom Mitglied: Diana 1234
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Saigegirl, right you are! Thank you! 💜💜
21 Jun 22 vom Mitglied: Diana 1234
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And dang it that sign is so true!
21 Jun 22 vom Mitglied: 66Pack
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DJ. Nice to hear from you...and you are right! 💜. 66pak, it's true right? Now I want tacos...💜😂
22 Jun 22 vom Mitglied: Diana 1234
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