INTERESTING VIEW FOUND ON A MESSAGE BOARD... (THE KEY COMPONENT HERE IS HEALTH)
If I'm honest with myself, I think I'm starting to see things her way. I'm so tired after spending my life driving myself crazy.
I'm fat. I have always been fat. I am careful what I eat, watch salt, sugar, fat and get the fruits and veggies every day, fibre, etc. But despite that, I'm still fat. I was a fat baby, chubby toddler, etc., but I am healthy and at 61, I don't care what people think. I go to the beach, the pool. I travel, I do yard work. I live my life and my doctor knows I am healthy - BP, Cholesterol, blood sugar, all good - better than my average weight husband's. I don't need to post pictures of myself anywhere to know I have worth. I am loved. I have family, friends, live, love and laugh, every day. It's sad that someone needs to do this to feel good about themselves.
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