I am 23 years old. Office Manager for a local business & family business owner myself. Married to my bestfriend! No children, yet! For the past year or so I have become very uncomfortable with my weight. I am not obese, but I weigh more than I'd like to.. I've never really been that naturally skinny, but I've always had a good weight. When I started dating my husband 3 years ago I weighed roughly 140 pounds. I was happy at that weight. I now weight close to 180. I'm not happy with this weight.. I feel that if I don't get it under control now while I'm still a little young, I will regret it when I'm older. We all want to feel comfortable in our own skin. And I don't want to disappoint my husband. He married a nice thin woman. I don't want to be that wife that lets herself go. A little weight gain after a marriage is said be normal, but I don't find over 40 pounds to be "normal.."